A few weeks ago, our pastor talked about the Sermon on the Mount from Matthew 5-7. He made this statement and even put it up on the screen, in a power point slide, for us to all read: Marriage is to make you holy not happy. My pastor made this statement within the context of the very high percentage of people who are divorcing because they just aren't "happy" anymore. Even within the church this is happening regularly. Truly, God did not give us marriage in the perfect Garden of Eden to throw … [Read more...]
The Importance of Putting Your Marriage First
Did you know that my husband and I have been married for almost 12 years? It is hard to believe myself. We waited 8 years to have our first child and I remember those days. They are getting a little foggy, but those first years of marriage were pretty great. Of course, we had our rough and bumpy patches but we made it through and we spent a lot of time together and loved doing romantic things. We enjoyed: dinner out enjoying a local bed & breakfast short trips to the San Juan … [Read more...]
The Mom Look
Sorry honey, but today is cleaning day. I have a dirty shirt on. I had to borrow the Princess’ purple hair snap to hold my bangs back. {Yes, I know it does not look good.} I have no makeup on. But yes, I did brush my teeth today. Welcome to The Mom Look. I am so glad you love me no matter what. I am a blessed woman. I will try and do better tomorrow. … [Read more...]
Happy Anniversary!
Today is my 11th anniversary. Can you believe it? How does 11 years go by so fast? It amazes me.So today, as we celebrate our marriage together I just want to list 7 things about my husband I am thankful for:My husband does his devotional each morning. He loves God, and that makes me a very blessed woman.My husband makes me laugh every day. He is very funny. That makes the monotony of life go better.My husband is my friend. We were friends before we dated and we have remained friends all these … [Read more...]
Together We Can!
It truly is official - after 10+ years of marriage, I will gladly admit that we are a good match. Case in point: We don't gang up on the Princess together.Whatever do I mean?Well, there are days, many some days, where we are I am just going crazy. On those particular days my patient husband gently reminds me that she is only two. I need that. It is nice to almost go crazy, but have a husband who can put things in perspective and stay calm, and pull me from going over the edge. This is good for … [Read more...]
Marriage is For Life!
While we were on vacation in Washington state, my husband and I celebrated our 10th anniversary. One way to make your home "sing" is to choose to stay married and have a good happy marriage. Marriage is not always easy but love should be a choice not just a feeling. Our choice is to stay married, put God first in our marriage, and be together for life - no matter what. I am so glad we have made that decision. We are happily married after 10 years and I can't wait for 10 more! Gen. 2:18, … [Read more...]
10 Years?
Shouldn't I get a Phd by now in marriage? Wow! 10 years ago today I married my husband. I was 20 years old. Just a child. But we made it. With the help of the Lord, we have survived 10 years and thrived. I can't wait for at least 50 more! You know, the older you get the faster time flies. Really, it does not seem like 10 years. So this post is a BIG Happy Anniversary message to my husband a wonderful man. A man who has put up with impatience, bossiness, stubbornness, selfishness, cold toes, and … [Read more...]
